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The Hidden Truth: Success Finds You When You’re Busy

October 7, 2024

Hello, Grit Grinders! We’ve all heard stories of overnight success, people who seemingly stumbled into fame, wealth, or recognition without breaking a sweat. But the truth is, these “overnight” successes are often years in the making. Behind every victory are sleepless nights, relentless hustle, and a laser-focused dedication that most of us don’t see.

This brings us to one of my favorite quotes:  “Success usually comes to those who are too busy to be looking for it.”

In the age of social media, where we often equate success with followers, likes, and viral moments, it’s easy to get distracted by the allure of instant gratification. However, real success—the kind that lasts—comes not to those who chase it obsessively but to those who are too immersed in their passion, their work, and their purpose to even notice it sneaking up on them.

In this post, we will break down the essence of this quote and explore what it truly means for entrepreneurs. Through storytelling, examples from real-life business moguls, and actionable strategies, we’ll uncover how you can shift your mindset to focus less on chasing success and more on the work that will ultimately lead you there.

The Productivity Trap: When Success Becomes a Distraction

In the entrepreneurial world, the pressure to achieve success can sometimes feel overwhelming. From obsessing over vanity metrics like revenue numbers or social media followers to constantly measuring yourself against your peers, it’s easy to fall into the trap of focusing on the wrong things.

But here’s the thing: when you’re too focused on reaching the end goal, you often lose sight of what truly matters—the process. Take Elon Musk, for example. While he’s now a household name, Musk has repeatedly emphasized that he wasn’t chasing fame or wealth. He was, and still is, deeply engrossed in solving complex problems, whether it’s revolutionizing space travel or making electric cars mainstream. His success was a byproduct of his relentless work ethic and passion for innovation.

Musk’s story isn’t unique. Many of the world’s most successful entrepreneurs didn’t set out to become rich and famous—they were driven by an intense passion for their craft. Steve Jobs didn’t create Apple because he wanted to be the most famous CEO in the world. He was obsessed with building beautifully designed, user-friendly products that changed the world of technology.

Lesson #1: Success is a result, not a goal. It’s something that comes to those who are driven by their passion, not by their desire for fame or fortune.

The Busy Myth: It’s Not About Being Busy, But About Being Productive

Now, let’s talk about the second part of the quote: “too busy to be looking for it.” There’s an important distinction between being “busy” and being productive. In today’s fast-paced world, it’s easy to confuse the two.

Being busy might mean filling your day with tasks, checking off to-do lists, and hopping from one meeting to another. But productivity—true productivity—comes from working on the things that truly move the needle in your business.

Take Sara Blakely, the founder of Spanx, for instance. Early in her career, she juggled multiple jobs, working hard just to make ends meet. But it wasn’t until she found a problem that she was passionate about solving—the discomfort of wearing traditional women’s undergarments—that she put her energy into a singular mission. Instead of spreading herself thin, she focused all her time and effort on refining her product. Spanx went on to become a billion-dollar empire.

Blakely wasn’t just busy; she was laser-focused on the right problem. That’s what made her stand out in the crowded fashion industry. Entrepreneurs who adopt this mindset—focusing on solving problems and serving their audience, rather than just staying busy—are the ones who eventually find success.

Lesson #2: Don’t confuse busyness with productivity. Focus on the activities that align with your goals and that provide the most value to your customers or clients.

The Power of Passion: How Loving the Work Leads to Success

Another key theme embedded in the quote is passion. The entrepreneurs who are “too busy” to be chasing success often find themselves absorbed in their work because they genuinely love what they’re doing. This immersion is what allows them to get into a flow state—where time seems to disappear and all that matters is the task at hand.

In his book Deep Work, Cal Newport emphasizes that people who spend long stretches of uninterrupted time working on complex tasks tend to outperform those who are constantly multitasking. Newport argues that it’s not about how many hours you put in, but how deeply you can focus on important work without distractions. When you’re fully immersed in your passion, you don’t have time to chase after superficial rewards like fame or quick profits.

One entrepreneur who exemplifies this is Tim Ferriss, the bestselling author and investor. Ferriss didn’t start his journey chasing success; instead, he was driven by his passion for optimizing life and business. His breakthrough book, The 4-Hour Workweek, came as a result of his deep experimentation with time management and productivity. Ferriss was obsessed with finding a better way to work—not with hitting bestseller lists or making millions. The success followed naturally as his work resonated with a vast audience.

Lesson #3: Immerse yourself in the work you’re passionate about. The deeper your focus, the more naturally success will follow.

Failure Is Part of the Process

Another aspect of success that’s often overlooked is failure. It’s easy to think that successful entrepreneurs have some magic formula for avoiding failure, but that couldn’t be further from the truth. Failure is an integral part of the journey.

Thomas Edison, one of history’s greatest inventors, is famous for his perspective on failure. After thousands of unsuccessful attempts at creating the lightbulb, Edison didn’t see his efforts as wasted time. He famously said, “I have not failed. I’ve just found 10,000 ways that won’t work.” Edison wasn’t focused on “chasing” success; he was too busy experimenting, learning, and refining his ideas.

Failure can be discouraging, but when you’re deeply invested in your work, failure becomes just another step toward success. The entrepreneurs who succeed are the ones who persevere, not because they’re chasing a particular outcome, but because they’re committed to solving a problem or pursuing a vision.

Lesson #4: Don’t fear failure—embrace it as part of the process. When you’re passionate about your work, failure is just a stepping stone to eventual success.

Success as a Byproduct: What Does That Mean for You?

So, what does all of this mean for you, the entrepreneur? It means that the path to success is less about chasing it and more about building the foundation that will allow success to come to you.

Here’s what you can do to implement this mindset in your entrepreneurial journey:

  1. Focus on your passion. Find the problem you’re passionate about solving and pour your energy into that. When you love the work you do, success will feel less like an end goal and more like a natural outcome of your dedication.
  2. Prioritize productive work. Take a hard look at your daily tasks. Are you busy, or are you productive? Focus on the activities that will move your business forward, whether that’s developing a product, improving your customer service, or refining your marketing strategy.
  3. Embrace failure. Every failure is a lesson. Instead of seeing it as a roadblock, view it as a stepping stone toward refining your approach and eventually achieving your goals.
  4. Be patient. Success is not a sprint; it’s a marathon. It might take months or years of hard work before you see the fruits of your labor, but if you stay focused on the right things, success will come.

Final Thoughts: Let Success Find You

Success isn’t something you can force or chase down. It’s a byproduct of your passion, focus, and persistence. Entrepreneurs who stay immersed in their work—who are “too busy” solving problems, refining their craft, and pushing through failures—are the ones who ultimately achieve the kind of success that lasts.

So, instead of constantly measuring yourself against others or chasing after quick wins, focus on the journey. Be so busy doing what you love and working on what matters that success has no choice but to find you.

Actionable Takeaways:

  • Reassess your daily tasks: Are you focusing on what truly matters?
  • Immerse yourself in your passion: Find joy in the process, not just the outcome.
  • Fail forward: Learn from every setback and use it to refine your approach.
  • Be patient and persistent: Success doesn’t happen overnight, but if you stay the course, it will come when you least expect it.

Success is not elusive—it’s waiting for those who are too engrossed in their work to even notice it coming. So, roll up your sleeves, dive into your passion, and let success sneak up on you.